THE ROSENBAUMS

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http://rosenbaums4.blogspot.com for further updates on the baby and our lives!

Starting Another Chapter in Our Lives

2010-01-05T15:00:00.002-05:00

So, 2009 came and went....we've enjoyed being "a family" again as we moved into our new house in Andover (thanks to Ron for all of his hard work!).

Adam started full time at Oak View Middle School (only a mile from the house) and is teaching 6th/7th grade Art. He's enjoying his year, although he is VERY busy!

I am part-time again teaching Social Studies at Oak View....7th grade. Enjoying my little spunksters---they really are an awesome group of kids this year!

Vivian is growing....growing....GROWING! She is quick to tell people that she is 3 and a HALF, not just 3
She is also eager to tell people that she is going to be a BIG SISTER!

Yep. That's right. End of August will bring a new little Rosenbaum into our clan. We're excited....and a little scared....shocked....but mostly excited!

So, there you have it. 2009!

2009-05-03T17:58:00.001-05:00

Make a Smilebox slideshow

It's Been Almost a Year

2009-04-30T12:17:00.002-05:00

I can't believe that it has been almost a year since the last post. A lot has happened, yet much is still the same. We're still at Ron and Kay's---but moving out soon. We're still looking for jobs, although I did get to teach at Oak View Middle School this year. Unfortunately, the tightening of purse strings has resulted in my layoff. Adam has been subbing, coaching 6th grade volleyball, boys tennis and also working a security detail at Fred Moore Middle School and Sandburg Middle School. I still have my part time job at JoAnn, and have also picked up another job waitressing at BearTown Bar and Grill in White Bear Lake.

****A little brag alert...but seriously, we're just trying to update....****

Vivian is awesome! She turns 3 on Monday! Yikes! She amazes us everyday. In January, she decided that diapers were for babies and decided to only wear big girl panties. FINE BY ME! And that was that. She started writing her name at Judy's (daycare) in February. Judy assumed that we taught her...I thought Judy was helping her. She fools us all! Vivi loves all things having to do with animals. Especially Lions...and Alligators...and Dinosaurs. No cute little puppies for this kid. She loves to be outside, play with cards, work puzzles and play games. She HATES sleeping, getting out of her jammies and all types of vegetables. In her words, "I can't like them."

I'll post new pictures soon!

Time Flies

2008-05-20T12:43:00.002-05:00

I guess in all of the hubbub that is our life, we didn't post Vivian's 2 year stuff.

She's still tall for her age, but not AS high of a percentage as at her 18 month appt.
35 inches, 80th percentile

Weight...she gained a lb. 26#, I think Adam said 25% percentile...

Doctor is pleased with her abilities. She is developing gross and fine motor skills well and is strong academically, as she can count to 5---and knows what that means. She knows all of her colors and more objects and animals than others in her age group. YES!

At home, we are enjoying every moment of her---she is well into her "twos" stage, but we think it is mostly terrific! She LOVES school buses, her swing and sandboxes...oh, and being nudester!

To Vomit or Not to Vomit

2008-04-17T09:12:00.003-05:00

So I woke up this morning and was whipping around getting ready for work, as usual. We have state testing today and a gazillion other things going on so I was on the ball---

I'm in the kitchen, making my egg beaters omelette, grabbing my lunch and snack for the day...as I'm running out the door, I grab my water bottle out of the fridge in my concious effort to get my 8 glasses in...

I'm in the car-boppin' to some good music and take a huge swig of my water.

Then, reality sets in. IT. IS. NOT. WATER.

Nope. It's vinegar. And I just drank a ton of it.

So, I'm trying not to throw up in the vehicle, looking for anything to wash down the burning taste in my mouth and throat. I got my hands on a few day old bottle of recycled (tap) water and guzzle it. Then, Vivian's day+ old juice cup. Down what's left of that. Ugh. Trying to make it to work.

Got here. Didn't puke. Guzzled more water, ate some pretzels. 2 hours later, my throat still burns a little and my stomach is churning at the very thought of it.

Quick Update

2008-04-11T12:12:00.003-05:00

We're busy...I'm teaching 6th grade a Sandburg Middle while Adam is finishing up his grueling St. Cloud spring semester. We're still trying to close on the house. It has been a headache, to say the least. We're on our 3rd buyer, 6th closing. We get offers right away, it's just that no one can close the deal.

Vivian is doing great. We cannot believe she is almost two!

**I've got to brag just a teensy weensy bit here**
She knows her colors---red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple, brown, black, white, pink
She knows the letters S, M, L, E, O, Y
She knows most opposites---up/down, in/out, etc...

We continue to be amazed every day at the intelligence, spunk, and love that comes from our little girl. She is absolutely the BEST THING EVER!

Happy Week!

2008-03-19T22:33:00.001-05:00

It is spring break, for me at least! So, I'm home with the Poosh--and we're having a blast! Here's some recent pictures:

#1. Lovin' her new backpack (doesn't seem to understand that she can't sit in her carseat with it on... :)

#2. Is that a doo-rag on her head? A Babushka? Nope. Just her choice of a hat for her "shopping trip".

#3 and #4. Coloring Easter Eggs--messy, but oh so fun!

#5. Swinging. Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall. Doesn't matter. LOVES IT!

Fun at the Children's Museum

2008-02-19T15:32:00.002-05:00

I Am You and You is Me

2008-02-14T00:40:00.002-05:00

So, Vivian thinks her name is You. Don't know why...because we DO call her by her actual name...

Must be the whole, Where are you going? Are you hiding? Did you have a good sleep? Are you wet? Do you want some supper? Well, you get the picture.

So we go through names...dadda, momma, papa (grandpa), ramma (grandma), Elmo...then we say, "What's your name?" To which she promptly replies, "You!"

Silly girl.

'Lil Miss No No

2008-02-04T23:13:00.000-05:00

Cute Vivster story:
If you've been around our daughter at all lately, you'll know she is OBSESSED with all things Elmo and Sesame Street related. SO, taking a little advantage of the 20 min. of peace it would provide so we can get something else done, we let her watch 20 min. of one of her ELMO videos each day.

WELL, the past few days, when she gets to a scene she doesn't want to watch or a song she doesn't want to hear, she starts in with, "No, No, No, No" etc., getting progressively louder until we skip ahead to something she wants to see/hear. (She especially dislikes Oscar's "I Love Trash"...which goes on...and on...and on...)

SO, I'm driving home with her today and I hear..."No, No, No, No" coming from the backseat. I look in the rearview and she is pointing to the radio station, basicallt asking/demanding me to switch stations...ya gotta be kidding...

Ach, I don't really prefer Edwin McCain either my dear Viv...

First Haircut!

2008-01-23T19:53:00.000-05:00

Vivian's Friends!

2008-01-23T19:50:00.001-05:00

Some New Pictures!

2008-01-23T19:44:00.000-05:00

The Gronau's came over for some sledding fun at the beginning of January. The kids (and we, as well) had a blast! It was fairly warm out-35 degrees-so we were able to hang outside for awhile without freezing every finger and toe!

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year!

2007-12-31T21:22:00.000-05:00

I am told that with a new year is a fresh start...a clean slate...a chance for something better. I suppose that is where everyone gets those insane ideas for new year's resolutions...

Regardless, if you need a fresh start in your life--go for it! There is no better time than right now.

Wishing everyone a blessed 2008, may your family be healthy and your wallets be filled (even if just with pictures of those you love). The best gift is to love and be loved. God Bless!

Santa!

2007-12-15T22:09:00.000-05:00

Ho! Ho! Ho! (this is Vivian EVERY time she sees a Santa Claus)

So we took her to see Santa today at Rosedale Center. He was super nice and Vivian loved him. She started out by waving as we walked up to him. Then, "HI!" in her cute little Vivi voice. I wasn't sure how she'd react when I actually put her on Santa's lap, but she seemed to like him! (See picture below) She smiled nicely for the super expensive computer printed picture that parents get sucked into and said, "BYE!" as we were leaving.

What a cutie! She is so much FUN!

Some New Pictures...Enjoy!

2007-12-15T22:00:00.001-05:00

Thankful...

2007-11-30T19:57:00.000-05:00

I never did getting around to posting new Viv stats, nor did I write a Thanksgiving message...

So, here's the scoop...
Vivian is just a little bit taller (32 3/4 inches) and 24 lbs 5 oz. That puts her in the 90% for height and 70% for weight. She's well into being a toddler now, as more and more of her "baby-ness" goes away with each passing day. Kind of sad for me, but we're enjoying this new stage in her life. She's very much into her baby dolls, little people and animals. Nevermind the dogs and cats, she would much rather mimic sea lions, geese, horses, whales, etc. Crazy girl! She has mastered her peg puzzles and her shape sorter...maybe Santa will have to bring a few more things! :)

As for us,
well...

last year we gave to charity...this year it seems as though we ARE the charity.
We are stressed out, tired of school, in need of our own space, poor (until the danged house sells), and generally taking everything out on each other.

But then, we look at each other with a smile, laugh with our daughter, hug as a family...and we know that we are so blessed. We have each other...and know that because we are strong together, we can get through it all. And that, is truly something to be thankful for.

Keep the true meaning of the holidays in your hearts. Don't get swept up by the commercialization of it all. Take pictures...make memories...love each other...

Need Some Prayers...

2007-11-05T23:09:00.000-05:00

...to go out to my Aunt Peggy, her kids, my dad, etc. as my cousin Cherie (who is only 31) passed away this morning. Cause, right now, is not known. If praying is your thing, I know Aunt Peggy could use some right now.

Some Humor as We Start Winter...

2007-11-05T16:10:00.000-05:00

Jeff Foxworthy on Minnesota :

If you consider it a sport to get food by drilling through

18 inches of ice and sitting there for days hoping that the food will swim by,

You might live in Minnesota .

If you're proud your state makes the national news 196 nights

each year because International Falls is the coldest spot in the nation,

You might live in Minnesota .

If you don't know the difference between 'borrow' and 'loan',

You might live in Minnesota .

If your local Dairy Queen is closed from September through June,

You might live in Minnesota.

If someone in a store offers you assistance, and they don't work there,

You might live in Minnesota .

If your dad sleeps in his baseball hat, You might live in Minnesota .

If you have worn shorts and a parka at the same time,

You might live in Minnesota .

If you know how to say...Wayzata...Mahtomedi....Cloquet . Edina ...and Shakopee,

You might live in Minnesota .

If you think that ketchup is a little too spicy,

You might live in Minnesota.

You measure distance in hours,

You might live in Minnesota .

You switch from "Heat" to "A/C" in the same day and back again,

You might live in Minnesota .

You can drive 65 mph through 2 feet of snow in a blizzard without flinching,

You might live in Minnesota .

You see people wearing hunting clothes to church,

You might live in Minnesota .

You install security lights on your house and garage and leave both unlocked,

You might live in Minnesota .

You think the 2 major food groups are fish, and deer meat,

You might live in Minnesota .

You carry jumper cables in your car, and your girlfriend knows how to use them,

You might live in Minnesota .

There are always 17 empty cars running in the parking lot at Mill's Fleet Farm ,

You might live in Minnesota.

You design your kid's Halloween costume to fit over a snowsuit,

You might live in Minnesota .

Driving is better in the winter because the potholes are filled with snow,

You might live in Minnesota .

You know all 4 seasons: almost winter, winter, still winter, and of course, road construction,

You might live in Minnesota .

If "Down South" to you means Iowa ,

You might live in Minnesota .

You find minus 10 degrees "a little chilly",

You might live in Minnesota .

Quick Pics!

2007-11-02T15:25:00.000-05:00

We went to Como Zoo Boo on Sunday when Viv was a Giraffe, then Halloween was Wed. where she was an angel...

Sent from a VERY COOL MOM...

2007-10-24T09:29:00.001-05:00

Before I was a Mom
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom -
I had never been puked on.
Pooped on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put him down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom -
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Mom -
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache,
the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.

Our Little Vikings Fan

2007-10-19T12:48:00.001-05:00

And She Weans Herself!

2007-10-16T17:02:00.000-05:00

Vivian has no attachments to a nuk, blankie, stuffed animal, etc. The only thing that she relies on is a bottle before bed. We only give her a few ounces of milk, and frankly, we're just as attached to that night-time cuddle routine as she is. I love that time--as I'm reminded to relax, slow down and just plain ENJOY her!

Last week, she pushed away her bottle after only 2-3 ounces and rolled over on me, put her head on my shoulder and promptly fell asleep. 3 nights ago, she didn't want any bottle, 2 nights ago we didn't bother giving her one---and that was it. No more bottle at bedtime! What a big girl!

Only thing is...now mom and dad have to realize that our baby is growing up!

Loves Her Babies...

2007-10-12T13:59:00.000-05:00

Such a girly-girl! Our Viv is so sweet and gentle. Her most beloved things right now are her baby dolls. She feeds them, rocks them and puts them down for naps and bed (blanket, nuks and all). Sometimes we have to rock them and burp them too! But, when we do, sometimes she crawls in our laps and pushes the baby away...perhaps to remind us that she is, and always will be, our precious baby girl.

A New Look

2007-10-10T21:35:00.000-05:00

Like it?

Thanks, Carol...

2007-10-03T20:47:00.000-05:00

Carol posted this on her blog and it was precisely what I needed today. Our life feels like it is spiraling out of control and I really feel like I need to anchor myself to all that is truly important...my family. Problem is, bills still need to get paid, jobs still need to be gotten, homes need to be sold, lives need to move forward....
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FROM CAROL:

This was forwarded to me today by a pretty cool mom. I thought it was worth sharing. I'm not usually one to be overtly "churchy" or anything - but I like the underlying message in this one. And hey - I know that most of us are not alone in the work of raising our children - I didn't write it :)

FROM COOL MOM:

It all began to make sense, the blank stares, the lack of response, the way one of the kids will walk into the room while I'm on the phone and ask to be taken to the store. Inside I'm thinking, "Can't you see I'm on the phone?" Obviously not; no one can see if I'm on the phone, or cooking, or sweeping the floor, or even standing on my head in the corner, because no one can see me at all.

I'm invisible.

Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more:
Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this? Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, "What time is it?" I'm a satellite guide to answer, "What number is the Disney Channel?" I'm a car to order, "Right around 5:30, please."

I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again. She's going, she's going, she's gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England. Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself as I looked down at my out-of-style dress; it was the only thing I could find that was clean. My unwashed hair was pulled up in a hair clip and I was afraid I could actually smell peanut butter in it. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, "I brought you this." It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe. I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription:
"To Charlotte, with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees."

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work:

No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names.

These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished.

They made great sacrifices and expected no credit.

The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, "Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof? No one will ever see it." And the workman replied, "Because God sees."

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, "I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake
you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become."

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction.

But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride. I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, "My mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table." That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, "You're gonna love it there."

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.

Future Concert Pianist!

2007-09-22T17:12:00.001-05:00

Fun in the Fall!

2007-09-22T17:06:00.001-05:00

Vivian has been enjoying her fall-like days (guess it's not technically fall until tomorrow) riding on the 4-wheeler...in the bobcat...on her swing...this girl is ALL MOVEMENT! Adam is excited to have another rollercoaster partner!

We went to the Apple Orchard today which was fun. By the time we got there, it was pretty much time for Viv's nap, so she was crabby, but enjoyed sitting on the ground chomping on an apple fresh from the tree!

Naptime...

2007-08-24T20:43:00.000-05:00

So I was putting Vivian down for a nap yesterday as I religiously do between 12:30 and 1:00pm. She likes to start out sleeping on her tummy, then randomly flails about her crib for the duration of the nap. Anyways, I lay her down on her tummy...she instantly finds the corner of her crib and mashes herself in it, then tucks her knees up so her butt is sticking up (which is funny/cute enough in itself) but then...she wiggles her butt...and wiggles it...until apparantly it is JUST RIGHT. And then she sleeps.

She Found the Toilet Paper!

2007-08-23T17:46:00.000-05:00

Vivian has liked flushing the toilet for some time now, but yesterday, she found the toilet paper! And it was all on the floor before we could stop her! IS THERE ANYTHING MORE FUN?!?!?!

New Stats!

2007-08-16T14:23:00.000-05:00

Viv update---

She had her 15 mo. checkup on Aug. 7 and here's the news:

She's 32 1/4 inches tall (95th percentile)
weighs 24 lbs. (75th percentile)
head circ. 18 in. (??? percentile)

Everything is good. She had some shots, which she was mad about, but had no reactions to them which is good.

Recently, we went to the MN Zoo with our friends Kathy, Scott and their daughter Grace. A good time was had by all. Make sure you ask Vivian what a sea lion does next time you see her! Or a gorilla...or a whale... our child likes the more exotic animals, apparantly!

We're looking forward to a get-together with friends on Sat. night and a Sunday BBQ with Chad and Lisa on Sun afternoon.

Also, CONGRATULATIONS TO COUSIN BILL AND AMY NOGGLE AS THEY WELCOME BABY BOY BRYCE WILSON TO THE FAMILY! He's absolutely adorable! Can't wait to meet him!

Lake George

2007-07-23T19:32:00.001-05:00

Where do you take a crabby, teething toddler???

LAKE GEORGE!

The water is so super shallow and warm this time of year and the sand is GREAT to play in for hours. In addition to that, there is a fun park with swings. It is a lifesaver on these hot summer days.

The update of the week: still have not sold the house, we're still unemployed, and Adam still has a gazillion classes to take...and his shoulder is still messed up. Erg.

But, it's summer. And the sunshine is AWESOME!

It's 3 AM and I Must Be Lonely.

2007-07-19T03:45:00.000-05:00

Teeth. Glorious teeth. That's gotta be it. I have a restless child--tylenol and oragel often. It seems as though she is getting a ton of teeth all at once now.

Doesn't help that I have a restless husband who is trying to sleep laying down again with his shoulder in a sling that keeps his arm straight out from his body.

Ok, I guess I will try going back to sleep. For whatever good the 1/2 hour will do me before she's up again.

Nigh-night.

Vivian is super cute!

2007-07-16T16:58:00.000-05:00

She is off and running! Ok, so it is more like fast walking...
Bumps and bruises are becoming the norm--usually on her head, poor little noggin. :(

Ooohh...NEWS FLASH! NEWS FLASH!
A third tooth has emerged! Its the upper-middle right one! Yes! It is quite an achievement...almost 15 months old and 3, yep, THREE teeth!

Viv LOVES waving hi/bye to everything...animate or inanimate objects. Its kinda funny. She still blows kisses lots which remains super cute.

I'm looking forward to working on her album this weekend. My M-I-L, S-I-L and I are working on the books Friday and Saturday. Yeee!

Man, Almighty!

2007-07-15T22:41:00.000-05:00

So. It has been a long time. And I had high hopes of posting more now that we're in Minnesota and it's summer...yeah, yeah.

But actually, NOW we have internet at home...and we're unpacked. Yippee. So, I will try my darndest to entertain you all a little more often.

It is Sunday night, and I have just come back from "girls' weekend" in Winona. If I didn't realize how incredible my girlfriends are, I know it now! I am so blessed to have such an amazing group of people in my life. God bless you all and thank you for who you are and all that you do! I love you, pandas!

We're here!

2007-05-28T08:30:00.001-05:00

I seem to only be posting once a month....this should change now that we're not sick...or packing...

First of all, I should say happy birthday to you, viv! I wrote you a letter for you to read when you get a little older... my oh my, time has flown! You have grown so much this year and daddy and I are just bursting with pride, amazement, joy and LOVE for you! Keep on being the beautiful, intelligent little girl you are! We love you!

We're here in MN, complete with new address and email info. Let me know if you didn't receive it and want it! Viv and I flew here on Sat. Sure beats driving the 26 hours in a car! Adam and his mom should be here tonight...Ron got here with the truck last night---sweet! We've enjoyed staying with Julie and Kreg...Viv has been getting to know her cousins, Audra, Kurtis and Olivia! FUN! I'm sure this summer with be lots of fun as we get reacquainted with the area and with all of our friends and family. We'll even be in driving distance of the Illinois group, so we can jet down for a weekend WAY MORE often!

Hopefully we will see you at Viv's party on June 23rd---more info coming in the mail soon!

Blogworthy...

2007-05-01T20:03:00.000-05:00

An ER Story:
(worthy of some House episode, I'm sure)

On Thursday night Adam dislocated his shoulder...again. Only this time, it popped back, instead of forward. 5% of the population dislocate it posterior-ly so you can imagine the "delight" of the orthosurgeons of Central Florida.
Off we went, to Urgent Care. But, they won't touch it--have to go to the ER. Ok. We head on over to the ER where there are, seriously, a hundred people in the waiting room. Great. After about an hour, they take Adam back for x-rays. Result: "You're fine. Must have popped back. Here's some pain medication and a sling." Um. No.
After a sleepless night, Adam is in so much pain he is shaking. SO, I found a walk-in Orthopaedic clinic up in Winter Park. We go there and Dr. Anderson takes new x-rays. A-Ha! There's the correct diagnosis: Posterior Shoulder Dislocation. So, we're off to the ER again (at a different hospital...moms didn't raise dummies).
Adam got sedated and they re-set the shoulder. He comes out of sedation and they take an xray. Poor guy. Shoulder is still out of whack. Unfortunately, they cannot re-sedate him so soon so they try resetting with no pain killers. They tell me, "lie on his legs and hold his hand." One doctor proceeds to pull one way, another pulls in the opposite direction. Whatever mental image you have in your head right now is probably pretty accurate. Stupid, stubborn shoulder.
They just couldn't get it back, so they admitted him to the hospital for the night and said they'd get him into the OR in the morning.
It is now Saturday afternoon. Going on 42 hours...
Adam is now put under general anesthetic and taken into the OR. Thankfully, they were able to re-set the shoulder without cutting him open, which was the next resort.
Now he is in a sling/cast, not able to work for 2 weeks, minimum, and certainly not able to do anything else. Next Wed. he'll be evaluated by the orthopaedic surgeon as to how much longer he'll be laid up, as well as what type of surgery he'll need and when. Yuck. What a mess.

On a happier note,
Congratulations to friends Kelli and Weylan on their SURPRISE--Kelli is pregnant for the 4th TIME! (They currently have a 17 year old, 12 year old and 5 year old---all boys.)

Also, congratulations to cousins Joe and Ann (and big brothers Andrew and Alex) as they welcomed their 3rd son into the family--Aaron. What a blessing!

The house is still for sale. Lookers, but no buyers. Drat. Still moving though.

That's about it for tonight.
Looking forward to receiving some pictures from Preggo Peggo's shower...

We All Need an Easter Sunday Sometimes

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-to remind us of new life
-to help us remember that each day is a new day filled with promise
-to reach out and touch the lives of those around us
-to celebrate Jesus and all He does for us each and every day

God Bless you all this Easter Sunday!
Rejoice in the gifts you have been given!
Celebrate the life and resurrection of Jesus Christ!

More Pics!

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Linda and John Noggle came to visit us---so did Great Aunt Joanne and Uncle Jim Rosenbaum!

Playin' with jelly bellies! Good thing I don't put them in my mouth!

Look grandpa! I LOVE watermelon! Will you share some with me this summer?
Daddy and daughter playing in the water at Lowry Park Zoo in Tampa---soakin' wet and LOVIN' in!

New Pics!

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Look! I am a big girl! Walking! (with help, but who's lookin'?) Adam and Vivi at Central FL Zoo--a little leary of the petting zoo...
Cute lil' chubby girl!

New Stats

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We went back to the doctor yesterday for Viv's monthly ear infection medicine. Not cool. But, what can you do? I heard there is a new shot out there now to prevent ear infections, or at least make them less frequent/painful, but babies have to have the shot when they are only a few months old. Bummer. Next kid is gettin' that shot! Hopefully she grows out of these (like most kids do) and not end up like mommy...

Anyways, while we were there...

22.5 lbs.
31 inches long

Yikes!

HOP! HOP! HOP!

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The Easter bunny is on his way!

Man, What Does it Take to Blog??

2007-04-03T09:37:00.000-05:00

Darn school, they don't let you blog there (which I did during my free time), so I can't seem to blog---EVER.

Here's a quick update.

House: still for sale. 49 days on the market...and counting. But, we're still leaving.

Adam: Doing well. Dredding going out to mow the law in the "summer" heat. Getting anxious about selling the house and moving.

Vivian: Getting bigger by the day--she gets ear infections a lot. Went to meet the Easter bunny this week (we're on Spring Break---yep. Still get Spring Break). She was curious, but not scared. I will post the picture soon (I promise). She babbles constantly and FINALLY (keep your fingers crossed) sleeps through the night. It's been about 8 consecutive days now and we're just hoping it's permanent. Viv is a butt-scooter, not a crawler, but LOVES to walk with our help. She is getting brave by letting go of one of our hands and trying to move---only a matter of time...

We went swimming at a friend's house yesterday...'lil waterbug had fun splashing and watching the other kids. She had a lot more fun outside of her floaty turtle than in...go figure.

Me: Just trying to keep my head above water. Not sure how others do it all and more sometimes. Maybe I just need to get back home.

Today we're running errands (Kohl's Target Old Navy)....pretty exciting.

We did get to see some pre-season baseball which was way fun. Can't wait to see those Cubbies this summer and the Twinkies (although outdoor baseball is WAY MORE FUN!).

Congratulations!

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BIG Congratulations to Tricia and Kevin Mathews on the birth of

William David

March 2, 2007, 2:41am

9lbs, 8oz., 21.75" long

Can't wait to meet you Will! You are absolutely beautiful! Welcome to the world!

So Much to Catch Up On!

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This month has been swirling by--seems like just yesterday we were in MN for Christmas and now, only 40 days left of school! Yes! Oh, wait...that means that the 1st birthday of the lil' munchkin is fast approaching....1 YEAR! WOW!

Here's her basic update...22 lbs. almost 31 inches...10 months old....doesn't like "people" food, but that could be because she still has no teeth. That's not a bad thing though---the longer it takes for her teeth to come in, the healthier they (cross your fingers here) should be.

Ear infections are a constant problem with her. She's a trooper, but it is still painful. Pew.

Crawling doesn't seem to be her forte, but she seems to want to walk pretty bad. She is good at taking steps (with help, of course) and just got a good pair of Stage 2 Stride Rites...cruisers...

Random picture...

Bathtime funky hairdo.

Scott and Kathy and Little Gracie came to visit in January. I might have mentioned that we had a great time at Universal Studios and Islands of Adventures....can't remember.... BUT, Gracie is an absolute doll--she does what I thought little babies were SUPPOSED to do, eat...sleep....poop....occasional gassy smile.... hmm.... wonder how our little kiddo missed the whole sleeping part.

Vivi and Gracie...

Let's see...oh! We're taking plenty of advantage of those free teacher passes to SeaWorld. We went as a family a few weekends ago and then we're going with some friends on Sunday. Vivster likes the penguins, puffins and seals the best. She loved watching the puffins swim around.

More later!

Miscellaneous Update!

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Congratulations to our friends Lesley and Cailin as they welcomed baby boy Noah into the world on Feb. 19 @ 11:11 pm. He was actually due to arrive on March 10, but graced us with his 7 lb, 3oz. presence a little early!

Jara, we're so proud that you hopped on the blogger bandwagon.... http://soostfamily.blogspot.com

My friend Alva from high school came to FL to visit (he is in the Marines and is currently on leave from Iraq). We had a fabulous, extravagant dinner and an absolute blast catching up on all the years that have whizzed by (has it really been 13 years already?!?!?!). He stayed with us one night that he was here and enjoyed Vivian and getting to meet Adam. They hit it off well as they immediately launched into deep discussions about the latest/greatest movies.

Our house is officially on the market and our car is officially for sale. For the house, the MLS# is 04749457 if you feel like perusing on realtor.com. Link below might work...

http://www.realtor.com/FindHome/HomeListing.asp?snum=29&locallnk=yes&frm=byzip&mnbed=3&mnbath=2&mnprice=250000&mxprice=275000&js=off&pgnum=3&fid=so&stype=&mnsqft=&mls=xmls&areaid=32824&poe=realtor&zp=32824&sbint=&vtsort=&sorttype=&typ=1&x=38&y=6&sid=08195C2F0DEBC&snumxlid=1075969189&lnksrc=00002

Wow! Where Does Time Go?

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I can't seem to find the time. For anything. Period.

I realize this as I go to read my friends' blogs and have to read 6 or 7 entries just to catch up. And then, I realize that I have written in WEEKS...so not cool.

Here it is...the lowdown on the Rosenbaums...

Happy 9 month birthday Viv! Talk about time flying by!

Stats:

weight: 21 lbs.

length: 29 in.

That puts her in the 90th percentile for height and 75th for weight and head circumference. Not bad, baby doll, not bad! (For those of you interested, she is 2 lbs. less than Adam was at her age and the same height). She had 2 shots--for some reason, the shots bothered her longer this time...guess the Dora band-aid doesn't work on 9 month olds... :(

She insists on sleeping on her tummy and is a WILD sleeper. More often than not, I go to get her only to find her completely turned around and squished into some imaginably uncomfortable position in the corner of her crib. She also likes to sleep sideways in her crib...only one problem...she doesn't fit that way...so she kicks up her feet on the side--personal recliner, I guess.

Sleeping through the night is a huge problem--We just can't figure out how to get her to sleep through. She wakes up absolutely screaming for food. She eats 8-10 (!!!) ounces at least twice during the night...still. Doesn't seem to matter how much she eats (or what she eats) before bed. She MUST eat every 3 hours. What the heck?!?! If anyone has suggestions, PLEASE SHARE! Thankfully though, she goes right to sleep afterwards.

Crawling and teeth are not in the vocabulary here....she'd much rather stand and the teeth just don't want to come in. Sure, they bother her and every once in awhile we think we've got one...but nope. No dice. Along with the no teeth thing is the "I won't put anything in my mouth that is not my bottle, my spoon or my nuk." Don't little people put EVERYTHING in their mouths? Don't get me wrong, we're happy that she doesn't put toys and random discoveries of mysterious objects on the floor into her mouth, but come on...try a little cheerio or piece of pancake or somethin'! Weird kid... (but in the best possible way, of course)

All in all, she continues to amaze us every day. Meg said in her blog recently that she has come to accept, even enjoy and embrace motherhood. I'm not sure I'm there yet...but look forward to that time. It'll come... Babies are an incredible adjustment to people's lives...many, many good and wonderful things, but when you loved your independence and penchance for going out and having fun, it is hard to find yourself "trapped" at home worrying constantly about the well-being of someone else. For me, it is hard knowing that many of our friends here still have the freedoms that I often long to have back....but then, I see her or pick her up from daycare and she gives such great smiles and big, cuddle-bug hugs and I wouldn't trade it for the world!

In other, non-Vivian news, the house is officially going on the market this week. Good 'ol Clifford from Keller-Williams Realty has earned the job of selling our home. Lord, please let our home sell quickly so that we don't have to get up and make our bed perfectly every morning. Ugh. So bad at that. Anyways, when the house is on the mls site, we'll post the # so you can check it out....in case any of you feel like moving to the much warmer state of Florida.

BTW-I have to do it one more time...IT IS 74 DEGREES HERE WITH A MILD BREEZE AND PLENTY OF SUNSHINE! (nevermind that we'll be in the frozen tundra next winter)

In closing, here's a recent picture of the little monster with the much bigger one...can't tell they are related, can you?

She's Ticklish!

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Being tickled and "zerbert"ed by daddy---always so much fun!
2nd cousin Laura just loves seeing that smile and hearing that giggle!
Cousins! Audra (9), Olivia (5), Kurtis (7) and Vivian (8 months)

Posting Pictures--Finally!

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Some new pictures of the poosh! She's just a little ham these days!

Here's our snow bunny---1st snow!

Mom and Viv enjoying the fresh, crisp air (outside Ron and Kay's new home in MN)

I think Vivian likes her new friends...not sure what they think though...(j/k :)

Let's Play Catch!

2007-01-15T14:23:00.000-05:00

Catch up, that is! Happy New Year. Even though we're halfway through January. Seems like it was just turning 2006. Not really sure where that year went.

Anyways, some quick updates on the Rosenbaum family:

1. Vivian is just a little ham. She LOVES, I repeat, LOVES people. Especially little kids. The smaller the better. Laughing and shrieking are a way of life for her now which is usually such a joy to hear---except that Adam and I can no longer have a conversation in the same room with her...she likes to join in with an enthusiastic "AAAHHHH!!!! BLLLAAAAHHH!!!! DDAAADDADADADA!" which then puts us into fits of hysterical laughter.

2. News flash! Vivian MAY have just cut her first tooth today...yep...pretty sure of it...

3. Let's see...she loved Christmas. Something about little ones at Christmastime just brings out the magic of the season. She experienced snow and cold for the first time but didn't seem to enjoy that too much. She looked at us like we were crazy everytime we got her dressed in her big fluffy snowsuit or winter coat.

4. We got to see lots of people in MN...Viv got to visit with her friends Lucy, Eddie, Josie, Eve and the new little one (who's home is currently Tricia's tummy). We had a great (albeit short) time visiting. I think we truly all became parents when I looked around the room and ALL of us were happily singing ring-around-the-rosie...over and over...and over.

5. January put mom and dad back in school and Viv back in daycare. It also brought on bouts of the stomach flu this week.

6. We're trying so hard to put our house up for sale. Not an easy feat with the 8 month old.

Anyways, that's about it! I'll post pictures soon!

The last Hurrah in the little Tub

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Us at Our Work Xmas Party...

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Merry Christmas to All...

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We had Christmas in Florida with the Vivster before heading up north for a week. She is such a treat! We love this little kid! Anyways, mommy and daddy got her a new car seat and pjs while santa brought 2 books, 1 little learning puppy, a sing-along dvd (which she absolutely LOVES at daycare), and some game things for the Little Leap Thing that a little elf told santa she'd be getting for Christmas.

Grandma and Grandpa from Crystal Lake and Auntie Olivia sent her some nice things too! Thanks everyone!

As you can see by her outfit (or lack of one) in the pictures, it is still hot in FL. For those of you in the tundra, 80 degrees might sound like heaven right now, but for us...not so much. We're ready for a little brisk, clean, cool air! (Notice I did NOT say COLD air).

Holy Cheeks!

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Again, it has been awhile since I've posted. Not being able to post during planning or after school at work is not making it easy.

Thanksgiving was fun! We went to our friends Heather and Casey's house and enjoyed a scrumptous meal, complete with all the fixin's. Afterwards, we played Pirates of the Caribbean LIFE and other fun games....then watched movies. Vivian was a doll---she loves going over there as they have a golden retriever, Bogey, and two friendly cats, Mulligan and Bunker. The funniest thing is that Bogey is completely afraid of Vivian, especially when she lets out her newfound, ear-piercing shriek of joy.

Our volleyball team that we coach is undefeated. Keep your fingers crossed as we play our last regular season game on Thursday and then head into the playoffs. Go Eagles!

We had a Christmas gathering/game night this past Saturday at our house. While we thought it would be relatively low-key so Vivian could go to bed, it turned out that playing Apples to Apples and Catch Phrase got more wild than your average party would. Ah, well, Vivian slept on our comfy new comforter and peacefully slept through all the noise, laughter and banter.

As for Vivian, she turned 7 months old as of yesterday---yikes---time is really flying! She hates laying down when she is not supposed to be sleeping, preferring the sitting up position (or standing, if you are willing to hold her). She is starting to do the butt-scoot, but has no real interest in the whole crawling thing. The look on her face is, "Why crawl if you can walk instead?" Hmm...we'll see about that, little lady!

She is proficient at holding her own bottle if laying down and by herself. If you are holding her, it is hit or miss whether she'll hold it or be lazy! She drinks out of a sippy cup occasionally too. She also enjoys drinking out of mommy's water cup...especially if I have a straw and can give her some through that. I don't think she cares where stuff comes from, as long as she gets to be a part of it!

Babbling has got us in fits of laughter all the time. She sings to herself, especially in the car and at 3:30 in the morning when she should be sleeping. She seems to sing along when music is on and rocks back and forth. Adam thinks she may get his dancing abilities....oh boy....does she want that?!?!?!??! :) We are also convinced that she says "Hi", she has said it 5 times that we know of....but...could just be her working out all of those new consonant sounds like dadadadada. muhmuhmuhmuhmuhmuh.

That's our story. We're headed up to Blaine in a few weeks. Should be good times!

Here's a preview of "Cheeks and Her Christmas Pictures!"

Pictures...

2006-11-18T21:56:00.000-05:00

Congratulations to Kathy and Scott on the birth of baby girl, Grace Eleanor, born Nov. 7 and weighing in at 5 lbs. 10 oz. The whole family is doing fine!

Vivian update

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The Vivster is doing fine. She's got a cold which caused little ear infections, but mommy's instinct was right and she got checked out by Dr. Dobbins and placed on antibiotics before the infections got too bad. She had a little fever last night and hasn't been sleeping well, but then, who does when you can't breathe through your nose.

Her 6 month checkup was on Nov. 6---sorry, it really has been a long time since I posted...
She weighed in at 17 lbs, 8 oz and is now 27" long. Comparitively, at 6 mos. Adam was 17 lbs 6 oz and 27" long.

She was a little ladybug for Halloween and was just the sweetest little thing. Adam and I went to a Halloween party--I was the Cat in the Hat and Adam was part of the Scooby Doo crew...he was Shaggy. I'll post pics as soon as I get them from Morgan.

Oh, last thing, some friends and I went to the Jimmy Buffett concert in Tampa on Thursday night----WHAT FUN!!!! You can't live in Florida and not see Buffett. It's tradition! I will try to post pics of that as well.

Yikes! Time is Going Fast!

2006-11-18T21:38:00.000-05:00

I've updated some via email because I can no longer access blogger from my work internet at all. Dumb.

Anyways, here's the scoop:

Thanks for your thoughts and prayers for our friends...Matt continues to improve slowly each day. He is still in trauma ICU, so we cannot see him, but hope he is out by Thanksgiving to a downgraded room so that we can visit. He had his last major surgery (for the time being) on his pelvic bone this week and wasn't breathing on his own so they had to keep him on the ventilator. That is what is keeping him in ICU longer. He has responded to his dad and stepmom so we're all optimistic that he didn't receive any brain damage/memory loss. They were finally able to close the 12 inch incision that was made to re-shift his organs/take out his spleen/stop internal bleeding and repair his lung. It was being hermetically kept open until the swelling of his organs went down.

For those of you reading who are in the dark, our friend Matt got in a head on collision car accident when he was going home from our home 2 weeks ago. He broke his collarbone and leg, shattered his elbow and hip, collapsed a lung, shifted his organs, lost his spleen and had some major internal bleeding. He has gone through 9 surgeries so far...

Adam has recovered from his dislocated shoulder. He still cannot swing a softball bat, but luckily the season is over. His team ended up in 3rd place, which isn't too bad!

Our volleyball team is 2-0....wish the Vikings had a perfect record....it has been another hard season there.

We've been awfully busy lately. Seems like there aren't enough hours in the day.

Halloween Pics

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Here's some new pics...

Check it Out!

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Hey, check out this book....I've read it and thoroughly enjoyed it...

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1578567947

Violette Between by
Alison Strobel

5 months...and counting

2006-10-08T20:49:00.000-05:00

We simply don't know where the time has gone. Viv is 5 months old already! She is an absolute delight---we love watching her explore and observe the world around her. She is so innocent and full of wonder! Vivian is eager to sit up/stand/MOVE like the big kids and like us. She likes to sit at the dinner table and play with our napkins. Right now, she likes holding objects, but doesn't prefer putting things in her mouth. We're thankful of that right now, because that might limit her colds a little bit. (I'm sure being at daycare will bring on her first cold...hopefully not anywhere in the near future!)

Vivi and I completed our first 5K race together on Saturday morning. We race walked in "Race for the Cure" to raise money to help cure breast cancer. The race was through the Animal Kingdom park which was cool because we got to see the animals along the way. It was a great experience and I can't wait to do it again. I'd like to run it next time. Our teacher group raised over $600 dollars for the cause. The only bummer was getting up at 5:30 in the morning to be at the race by 6:30. Vivian doesn't usually get up until 6:30 and then goes back to bed for awhile after that, so she wore pink pajamas in honor of BC Awareness!

We're excited to get up to Chicago to visit and for the baptism. We'll be at dad and Rose's from Thurs.-Sat. and then at mom's Sat.-Tues. We have to be at the church by 9:30am on Sun. Hopefully everyone has gotten their invitations. If not, hopefully by Mon.

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Dang...

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Tried to post new pics, but blogger isn't cooperating....maybe tomorrow!

Daycare started on Monday. Vivian loves it, we're having a much harder time....although it helps that she is so smiley everyday when we drop her off and pick her up.

She is so worn out from all the activity all day, that she is knocked out by 8:00/8:15 or so and is sleeping through the night again. This is in addition to TWO, yes, TWO naps that she takes at daycare everyday!

More pics....

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What's that smell?

Doesn't my new brown knit hat look cute? Thanks grandma and grandpa! It matches my winter coat perfectly!

Laughin' with mom....

Watching football with daddy....with me around, daddy is a lot calmer during the games! Grandma and Grandpa from Minnesota made sure I have a Vikings outfit to cheer on the best team! I'll have to get a little Twins outfit for next summer....I hope mom and dad take me to some games.

When grandma came to visit, she bought me this really fun balloon. Good thing mommy cut my fingernails because I love to grab on to it!

Carrots, "The Office", and the Best Invention!

2006-09-24T11:07:00.000-05:00

I've promised pictures, and pictures you will receive!

Vivian has been busy this past week. Today she tried carrots for the first time and seemed to like them! She has started waking up at night again for food, so we've introduced rice cereal and carrots to hopefully have a little more lasting power.

My mom was here visiting---had a great time and definitely some quality grandma time! I started back to work on Thursday---it went fine, the kids are great, I just missed Vivian terribly all day long. Vivian did a little trial run at daycare last week. She was only there for a couple of hours, but did great and Stephanie (the daycare provider) really enjoys her.

Adam and I bought Viv an early Christmas present....Meg and Joel fondly term it, "The Office", aka Evenflo Exersaucer. It is GREAT! Vivian can spin herself around and play with a gajillion toys. The best part for her is that she can sit up by herself. Apparantly, laying down is for babies!

Lastly, the best invention ever! Some of you know that Vivi HATES riding in the car. We're not sure if it is riding backwards, not being able to see out the windows or what, but we have a solution....sorta. I found a REMOTE CONTROL operated mirror that lights up and plays songs, the whole 9 yards. I can control it from a garage door-like remote in the front seat. This keeps her highly entertained for about a half hour, which makes trips to the mall and Target (and school) much more enjoyable!

Oh, What A Night!!!

2006-09-15T13:01:00.000-05:00

It was late (at night) September back in '06....

As most of you know, Adam plays softball on Wed. nights....this weekwas no different...except that he had to go to the ER because he popped his shoulder out. No worries, it is back where it belongs. Unfortunately, it is also in a sling and out of commision for two weeks, at least. Kinda puts a damper on his parenting skills---no lifting! no diaper changing (which I'm sure he's sad about!) No bath-giving...etc...etc...

In Vivi-land, you'll be happy to know that she likes food....so far she has managed to put a piece of prime rib from brunch in her mouth and on Wed. she grabbed my (sugar-free) jello and got a taste....little stinker!

New pictures will be posted this weekend!

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4 Month Checkup

2006-09-07T18:56:00.000-05:00

Yesterday Vivian had her 4 month checkup....all is well!

Stats:

14 lbs. 14 oz.-----75th percentile
Head is 42 cm---75th percentile
Length is 25 3/4 in.---90th percentile

Daddy's stats when he was 4 months:

13lbs. 7 oz.
26 inches

Developmentally she is right on track (if not a little ahead).
She can hold her bottle now if it is light enough.
She has found her toes and puts them into her mouth (Thanks, Peg, for teaching her this! :)
I gave her a little rice cereal today. The Drs. were on the fence about it but I thought it was rather successful. She gobbled down all of it with little problem (it was VERY soupy). I think I'll continue giving it to her once a day. I'll post pics of her first tastings soon.

I had a Dr's appointment today.
It went well, all things considering. Dr. Napolitano answered a lot of my questions...she is changing my medication from Zoloft to Cymbalta....since there is a withdrawal period I am doing what is called a crossover. I take less of one, more of the other in 7 day increments until I have completely switched meds. Cymbalta deals more with the anxiety, rather than focusing solely on the depression. I also have Ambien CR to help me sleep (even though Viv sleeps through the night, I don't!) She also ordered up another Thyroid test---she thinks it is a continuing cause of the depression.
Otherwise, she cleared me to start working again on Sept. 21, 3 days later than originally expected. Oh....so sad....like I'm really in a hurry to go back....sheah...right.

Quick update...

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Viv and I spent another week in Chicago...had another fantastic time! We stayed with the grandparents in Crystal Lake, went to Septemberfest out in Schaumburg with grandma, visited with the great-grandparents, and went to brunch at the fabulous Port Edwards (yum!!) amongst other things!

Vivian is mastering the art of chubbiness. She is so cute with those thighs and cheeks!

She has recently found her toes--I'm sure it won't be too long before the toes find the mouth. She continues rolling and can stay propped up on her tummy for longer periods of time. Laughing has become a daily thing now, but she mostly laughs at daddy. (Who doesn't?!?!)

We will go to the doctor for her 4 month checkup and shots tomorrow morning. Maybe he'll recommend some rice cereal for the big eater!

She's still sleeping!

2006-08-25T07:20:00.000-05:00

Viv went to bed last night at 8:30...woke up at 6:00, Adam fed her....went back to sleep.... it is now 8:15 and the little bugger is still sleeping! It would be great except I have a doctor's appt. at 9:00.

She's such a little cutie patootie!

Long Time..No Post...

2006-08-24T14:18:00.000-05:00

It's been awhile since the last post. We've been extremely busy lately....

Let's see...Adam started back up at school this month. He says the classes are fairly large and he doesn't like the new start time (8:30 instead of 7:30), but other than that, he likes his job!

Viv and I went to Crystal Lake, IL to visit my dad, Rose, Laura, Olivia and Marc...oh, Lizzy too! We had a great time and enjoyed catching up/reminiscing/shopping/eating/swimming. Yep, Vivian LOVES the water---she kicks and wiggles like crazy in her little floatie and doesn't mind (much) if water gets in her face.

Milestones this month: She likes her nuk a little more now and is starting to eat more at a crack. Smiling is a way of life. She likes TV and peoples' faces. She knows how to blow bubbles and yesterday learned how to spit. No, not spit up, just spit. She thinks it is hilarious. Vivian is growing like a weed....somewhere around 15 lbs and 26 inches long. We'll find out for sure when we go to see the doctor for her 4 month checkup.

Other than that, we're finally settling into somewhat of a routine and I'm really starting to enjoy my mommy status. Adam is an amazing father and husband--I couldn't have gone through these last few months without him....love you, Adam!

XOXO to all! Call/write and let me know what's new with you!

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She ROLLS!

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The Vivster rolled over! Ahh! So big!

Fun at Gatorland!

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If you are a grandma or grandpa....DON'T freak! But.....your little granddaughter sat on a REAL LIVE 8 foot gator today!!

Another Crocodile Hunter in the making?!?!?!

True Love...

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When you find true love, your life is complete. All the hard stuff becomes easier, all the fun stuff becomes more fun, food tastes better, nature is prettier and the "mountains" of life seem easier to climb. When you find the love of your life, hold on tight and don't let go!

Congratulations to MY BROTHER and his new FIANCEE as they prepare to exchange marriage vows!

Marc, Adam and I couldn't be happier for you! We're so excited for Melanie and Jacqueline (sp?) to join our family and to get to know them better. When it's right, it's right... and we could hear it in your voice 2,000 miles away---you've never been happier, grinned larger from ear to ear or been more at peace in your life.

God bless you both as you plan your day and begin the wonderful journey of marriage together! We love you!

We're Baaacccck!

2006-07-24T18:33:00.000-05:00

We had an absolutely wonderful time in Alaska/Seattle/Vancouver. It was so fun seeing our friends who moved out to Seattle (they also went on the cruise with us). Some other friends and family (John and Peg too...) went as well. My favorite things were seeing Hubbard Glacier and the "To the Summit" excursion in Skagway. We saw a harbor seal, whales, dolphins, mountain goats, a porcupine and an otter. You can view all of the trip pictures on our shutterfly site. (Email me if you don't have that address, but want it!)

Congratulations to Pat, Carol and Josie as they welcomed baby girl Genevieve (Eve) to the world on Monday, July 17 at 9:45 pm. She weighed 7lbs. 5 oz. and is 19.5 inches long! So excited for you and can't wait to meet her!

Vivian is doing well--she's found a voice that does something besides crying and cooing....YELLING! She will randomly yell out...just because she can. She can roll over on her side and back again. She now opens up her hand and sucks on her fingers...what she has yet to realize is that sticking her fingers too far back makes her gag and it is nothing that we have done to her! What a silly girl!

She is officially in all 3-6 month clothes...can't believe we have to pack up the 0-3 mos. already! Daycare is all set up---she'll be in a home daycare with other teachers' kids starting Sept. 25 :(

Hope all are doing well!

If You can Dodge a Wrench...

2006-07-10T22:59:00.000-05:00

...You can dodge a ball!

Adam, Kreg, John and Roel's dodgeball team are the ship's champions. They won "gold" medals and everything!

I'm Sailing...Ahoy!

2006-07-10T22:55:00.000-05:00

We are sailing along the coast of Alaska right now. It is a bit chilly (60 degrees) and windy because the ship is traveling at a very brisk 23 knots in order to get us to Hubbard Glacier by tomorrow. The food is FANTASTIC--the ship is AMAZING--we're having a great time! I continue to be awed by all of the Earth's wonders.....

Tomorrow-Hubbard Glacier/Glacier Bay
Wed--Skagway
Thurs.--Juneau
Friday--sailing
Sat.--Victoria
Sun--back at port :(

Greetings from Washington!

2006-07-08T00:23:00.000-05:00

Hello all! We're here in the BEAUTIFUL Pacific northwest. The weather is great--mid 70s during the day and cool sleeping weather at night. We arrived in Seattle around 3:00pm on Thurs. Vivian was an absolute angel on the flights---2.5 hours to Chicago and then 4 hours to Seattle...whew. Once in the city, we went to the City Center and went up in the Space Needle. It really is a fun city. We had dinner with everyone at a tiny little bistro called Michaelangelos. Yummy! Pike's Fish Market was closed for the day, but we may go next Sunday after we return.

Today, Friday, we all went to see Pirates of the Caribbean for Jeremy's birthday. After that, we went to Deception Pass, which was breathtaking. We had an incredible view of the sound and of Mt. Baker. We continued our journey into Anacortes and onto Washington State Park. We walked down to the beach there where the kids loved exploring. The scenery here is amazing. Just as we were about to leave, we saw a sea lion (seal?--we have to look at the picture more closely) fishing and we also saw a deer and fawn. On the way home, we saw Mt. Rainer---awesome!

Oh, and one more thing....on the flight, I took some incredible pictures of Mt. St. Helen's ABOVE the clouds. Very cool. I'll post when we get back!

You may be subject to some audioblogs with my icky voice....but, I need to remember what we did each day!

Saturday morning we are off to Vancouver...

2 month checkup

2006-07-05T12:04:00.000-05:00

Vivian's stats:

weight: 12.5 lbs (80th percentile)
length: 24 in. (95th percentile)
head: 40 cm (80th percentile)

Doc says she is beautiful and healthy and made a good recovery from her rough start, weight wise. He said she's nice and tall (and must take after the husband's side of the family...ha ha). Vivian had her first big round of shots today. I think they hurt me more than her. She got REALLY mad, but settled down fairly quickly. She seems to be in good spirits, so hopefully no major reactions!

She is starting to like her swing a bit more...it went a little fast for her in the beginning so we had to rig some extra weight on it to slow it down. She also likes: Nuks, milk, laying on daddy, going for walks in her stroller, rides in the car (but not stop lights!), her green froggy blanket and her little pink lamb (that appropriately plays Mary Had a Little Lamb).

Viv Wanted to Post on the Blog...

2006-07-03T19:30:00.000-05:00

John...Jacob...

2006-07-02T17:11:00.000-05:00

Jingleheimer Schmidt....his name is my name too....whenever we go out....the people always shout....John Jacob Jingleheimer Schmidt...dah dah dah dah dah dah dah...

This is Mooshy's new favorite song. Maybe she's just entertained by the way I sing it or how I move her hands to "dance" to the song. Gotta love that it keeps repeating, and repeating.

Her highness's 2 month checkup is on Wednesday. I was laughing as I read Allison's blog and she said her daughter is 16lbs., 26in. I can't wait to hear the "official" word, but Viv is at least 24 in. and 13/14 lbs. already. She healthy, what can we say?

We're not sure what we are doing for the 4th of July. We'd like to go see fireworks, but I'm worried about the noise. So, I'm not sure yet. Sea World does a special Patriotic Shamu show and then they have the orchestra and stuff, so we may go do that for a few hours. Wish there was a BBQ to go to, but everyone is out of town this week....shucks!

Here's a new (and sort of smiling) picture of the Vivster at 2 months (well, almost)!

Changes in latitude, Changes in attitude....

2006-06-27T12:19:00.000-05:00

Since we've had so many changes lately with the baby, I decided to do a little something for myself. I had to get my haircut (didn't want to look like a shaggy dog anymore)....while I was there, I decided to COLOR MY HAIR! Lots of fun--it's called "cherry cola" and is a darker, auburn color.

Here's new pics...the white and pink outfit was mine when I was little!

She Likes It!

2006-06-25T08:36:00.000-05:00

Ahhhh....the life of a baby!

All of a sudden, the Nuk is great! (Of course, it has to be THIS Nuk, which they were out of at the store the other day.) Vivian has found that not only does she like to suck on it (as long as her tummy is full), but that if she puts her hand up it stays in her mouth better. She is so coordinated! Of course, sometimes she tries to hold it but doesn't quite get it...but we're workin' on it!

Happy Birthday to Meg and Pat---Hope the Twins/Cubs game was fun. We watched the series on TV.

Not much else is going on. I started Her Highness's scrapbook which has been fun! I was comparing pictures and am amazed at how different she looks already. She has a lot of facial expressions, which are so hard to capture with the digital...but I'm working on it! I think her hair is starting to fall out a little. Adam thinks it will come back in blonde, but I'm hoping for the darker hair still. (I guess most babies have the blonde hair though).

We're getting ready for the Alaska cruise, coming up soon... I have NO IDEA what to pack! The weather will probably be in the mid-sixties to mid-seventies which is pretty chilly for us. We've been in 90 degree weather for 3 months now!

Baptism

2006-06-21T09:31:00.000-05:00

We will send out invitations as the date gets closer, but we wanted people to be able to plan in advance (in case of travel).

Vivian's baptism will be on Sunday, October 15, 2006 at Lord of Life Lutheran Church in Schaumburg, IL. I believe it will be at the 9:30 service.

I think this is the same time as NEA, so the kids shouldn't have school that Thurs. or Fri., which might work out for traveling.

Vivian's next Dr. appt. is on Wed., July 5. It is her 2 month checkup and includes the dreaded shots.... As far as we can tell, she weighs about 12 lbs. and is at least 23 inches long. She is on the cusp of growing out of her 0-3 month clothes (especially her sleepers). Today she has a little bit of a stuffy nose, which is making her mad more than anything! We'll give more details after her appointment.....good thing we have LOTS of 3-6 month clothes though!

Things People Don't Like to Talk About

2006-06-20T15:11:00.000-05:00

I haven't really done an indepth update in awhile. Lots of stuff has been going on in our lives lately, however. First of all, my brother came to town this weekend and we had a lot of fun catching up. Vivian was enthralled with Uncle Marc and I believe he felt the same way!

As for me, I've been up and down. When we were here in FL after Viv's birth and when we were in MN, I just didn't feel good. I was crying all the time and really not enjoying Vivian at all. In fact, I was convinced that she was a really hard baby who fussed all the time for me. (For everyone else, she was pretty good...but fussed a lot with me). Anyways, when we came back to FL a couple of weeks ago, I went in to my doctor. Sure enough, she diagnosed me with post-partum depression and was very glad that I called/came in right away. SO, here I am, 2.5 weeks later---taking Ativan when I feel anxiety and Zoloft every morning. Unfortunately, that means that I can no longer breastfeed---medicine would go to baby. But, the doctor said that since I was having so many issues with the milk, stopping was probably less stressful for me. Well, she got 5 weeks of the best food in the world, so I'm happy for that. I'm not crying anymore...in fact, Vivian has suddenly become very fun for me. She is starting to smile and loves to cuddle. She doesn't cry all the time with me. Probably just did that because I was so anxious and crying everytime she was with me. I feel a lot better about being a mom and I feel like I am able to handle things and roll with the punches again.

We're looking forward to our Alaska trip---cooler weather, here we come! (Whew!)
We're also looking forward to doing a little sightseeing in Seattle and Vancouver beforehand.

Happy Father's Day!

2006-06-18T17:35:00.000-05:00

To all the fathers out there, have a wonderful day and know that your kids love you very much!

New Pics....

2006-06-14T19:52:00.000-05:00

Not much new to report...Adam and I are just completely enveloped in trying to figure out parenthood. I guess you never REALLY figure it out, but at least get to a point where you feel you have a good handle on it. I think we've actually figured out a pattern...which is a little helpful.

6:30-8:30am---awake...occasionally dosing off
8:30-10:30---actively awake
10:30-1:30/2---nap...if we're lucky
2:00-5:00---fun time! awake, happy
5:00-8:00---Yikes! Don't make plans. Could be an angel, could be a fussbuster.
8/8:30-2:30am-sleep
2:30-3:15am--awake and very hungry
3:15-6:00am--sleep

Of course, just when we think we have her figured out, she throws us for a loop. But hey, it is a start! (Notice that Little Miss Newborn only takes one nap a day). Maybe that means she'll continue to sleep longer and longer through the night!

Money in the bank!

2006-06-12T18:11:00.000-05:00

Yep... we deposited the $0.04 check from the mortgage company.

But, that's not all! I decided to clean out our safe and gather our birth certificates together so that we are somewhat organized for the cruise. We haven't gotten around to getting passports yet but we'll have to for next year when they change Canadian law. Anyways, what do I find at the bottom of the safe???? $100!!! SCORE! Gotta love finding money that you forgot about!

Vivian updates: She smiled....officially...more than once. She proved that she can sleep 5-6 hours at night. She's done it since we were in MN, but we're not holding our breath that this pattern will continue...although we are wishfully thinking that it might. She has perfected the "fake, I want attention" cry. Pathetic. She is very active and alert. Only takes one nap each day for about 3 hours.

Opening the Mail

2006-06-09T14:31:00.000-05:00

We had the post office hold our mail while we were in MN. I managed to get through about half the stack so far.

We got the insurance/doctor bill notification. With dread, I open it up...YIKES! Babies cost a lot in those 48 hours! Oh, wait....phew...the insurance covered most of it....

Oh, wait! Here's a refund from Chase Mortgage Co. because of an overage in our escrow. Maybe that will cover the amount we will owe the hospital.... $0.04. Yep. That's right. 4 measly little cents. Why? Why send 4 MEASLY LITTLE CENTS. Gosh. Got my hopes up. Oh well.

Viv is adjusting back to FL life quite well. She is working on eating more at each meal and eating less often. She is down to a feeding before bed, one at night and one in the (very early) morning.

At 1 month, she is very alert, verbal and well adjusted. She seems to be very particular---likes things "just so". I have recently found that she enjoys the swing, even though we think it swings way too fast. She can roll over from her back to her side. She enjoys baths in her tub, but not so much if we give her one in a sink. She is NOT a nuk girl right now, but will take it when she is cuddling before bed sometimes.

It's Been Awhile!

2006-06-07T21:55:00.000-05:00

We're back in FL...our trip went well, all things considered. We enjoyed seeing our family and many friends while there....guess that was Edith's plan, bringing us all together.

It is almost 11:00 and I think the little munchkin is awake in her crib....more later!

Sad News

2006-05-27T16:55:00.000-05:00

Our grandma Edith passed away today (Sat.). She has been living with alzheimer's for quite some time now and we believe that she is in heaven with grandpa with all of her precious memories back. We will miss her dearly but know that she is happy now with the rest of her family and know that we will see her again when our time on earth is done.

On that same note, we will be in Minnesota on Monday. We're not sure when we will be returning to Florida. We'll be staying up north for awhile at least--maybe a week or two.

It is times like this when we remember how fragile and precious life is. If you haven't told someone you love them or haven't visited someone as much as you should, take the time---you never know how much time God has planned for you.

We love you all!

New Pictures!

2006-05-25T15:52:00.000-05:00

What a weekend!

2006-05-21T16:42:00.000-05:00

We had an eventful weekend here....

My first day alone with Viv was on Friday---it went ok...we're still getting used to things here. She had her 2 week checkup...Dr. Kayaleh said she looks great, weighs 9lbs. 80z. (yikes!), grew 2 inches and is in the 90th percentile for weight, height and head circumference. She's very well proportioned! I think she's a little fussier than she should be...perhaps excess gas or something, but doc said everything looked normal!

We had 8th grade awards night on Friday night at school. Viv and I went with Adam to that. He had to present some art awards.

Saturday was a long day for me. I don't know how single moms do it. Adam was at Busch Gardens ALL day with the 8th graders. It is an end of the year trip for them and Adam got blessed with chaperone duty. So, off her went at 6:30am and didn't get back until after 7:00. But, he had fun and we survived.

THE BEST THING THOUGH, WAS THAT EVEN THOUGH HE WAS WIPED OUT AFTER A DAY OF CHASING KIDS THROUGH THE PARK AND IN 93 DEGREE HEAT, HE STAYED UP WITH VIVIAN ALL NIGHT SO THAT I COULD SLEEP FOR MULTIPLE CONSECUTIVE HOURS! WHAT A GUY!

Sunday...well, we planned on going to church, but we couldn't quite get out the door on time. Sorry, God. We tried. Viv and I went to the annual church picnic this afternoon. Adam stayed behind to get the rest of his grading done. (Last week of school is this week!)

When I got home, Adam and I spent some time trying to figure out how to soothe a fussy baby. Don't get me wrong...she doesn't have colic, but just seems really unhappy when she's awake. She cries often and straightens out her body in frustration. Can't quite figure this out.

Need Ideas....

2006-05-18T19:07:00.000-05:00

1. Viv has her days and nights mixed up. Not cool for mommy.

2. She also seems to have an un-ladylike problem....gas? poops? Who knows? Lots of grunting and getting mad in the face....

Otherwise, she remains as cute as ever. And strong...I think she'll be rolling over in no time, seeing as though she likes being on her tummy so much! (If only she could tummy sleep right now, we'd be in heaven!)

Girls, you know who you are, have fun on your girls only weekend! Give your guys extra hugs and kisses for staying with the kids!